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Transforming Our Lives through Self Reflection and Psychology
A psychology professor's collection of lessons fostering self-discovery through online activities, hands-on classroom experiences, engaging lectures, and effective discussion prompts.
Online Activity by Katie Hope Grobman

Gifts of Our Children – Roots & Wings

Finally, our chance to blame everything 'wrong' with us on our parents! Not really. But parenting styles matter. Examine the parenting style of one of your caregivers or examine your own parenting style with your children. | Psychology Key Concepts: Parenting Style; Authoritarian; Authoritative; Permissive

Finally. Here's our chance to find our how everything 'wrong' with us is our parents' fault. Not really. But parenting may matter. How do parents parent? Though every parent-child relationship is unique, they fall into broad styles. You might complete this activity multiple times, once for each of your parents or parental figures, and possibly also for yourself as a parent of a child. In the feedback, you'll learn which of three styles best describes the parent you rate, how your parent varies along two dimensions, and how close your parent-child relationship is.

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πŸ““ After-Activity Reading (below): draft materials available so far
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Rough Draft of Activity - What it Means
✨ You can try this activity anytime! I'm still writing a companion essay explaining your results. If you're already familiar with the psychology, you may still find your personalized results interesting on their own. If you teach, you're welcome to use the activity with your students and interpret results together. I originally created these activities for my own Psychology classes, and I'm gradually expanding them with essays as time allows. Rather than wait until everything is finished, I'd rather share each piece as it's ready. Thank you for your patience while this little corner of the project continues to grow. πŸ’›

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Additional Information

Uneasy Feelings about Your Results?
Please remember your results with any activity are not who you are. Your results are a 'snapshot' of a moment when you did an activity. It's just one measure, a single thread, of the many strands of who you are. Any result is a guess with statistical error. And it's possible the measure is flawed in a way so it doesn't work for you. Please do not think of your results as definitive dogma. Instead they're a starting point for our self reflection. Please keep in mind too, self-reflection can feel uncomfortable. "Bad" feelings are not actually bad. They're information. So, even if your activity result is inaccurate and flawed, you might ask yourself what your feeling is trying to tell you? Trusted teachers, friends, and therapists can be helpful. I wrote an essay elaborating with concrete examples how we can appreciate uneasy feelings about our activity results.

Scholarly Information?
You're welcome to use Copernican Revolution activities and essays for your thesis and studies. Having information about scholarly aspects like psychometric data, activity design details, and norm calculations may help. The primary focus of my essays is connecting educated laypersons with psychology. To help people like you, with advanced academic interests, I add an appendix with each activity.
Citation

Grobman, K. H. (2011). Essay/Activity Title. CopernicanRevolution.org

Citation date reflects activity creation; essays are continually improved.
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